Not looking for loveA not politically correct article on sex
in the new century
Here's an article that I wasn't sure if I should
link to or not, Love in the Time of Darwinism by Kay S.
Hymowitz.
It's not a very politically correct article. It's also a very true article. Long story short, if a straight guy wants sex regularly, he shouldn't be a nice guy. We could argue about the reasons. I used to think that it was the industry I worked in. It's not. It's all over. Compassion works great after orgasm. If you can find a woman willing to discuss philosophy, that usually works best after breakfast. Those can get the "repeat business," but don't expect the "initial sale." Depending on the neighborhood, the Pagan thing can make it better or worse. Bottom line though, the right kind of jerk will score more than all the nice guys around. Of course it's a mask. I would prefer romantic seduction, but it doesn't usually work. Right now I'm not in a committed relationship. I have some friends, and occasionally I do the pickup thing for the release. Nudity isn't sex and sex isn't love. Most of the women out there aren't looking for love. So if love is hard to find, what should a guy do? Posted: Mon - November 17, 2008 at 02:09 PM
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